What a girl wants! What a girl needs!

I was watching a show called ‘Parks and Recreation‘.  I have fallen in love with the cast.   The girls are pretty, talented and on the same page.    The lead actress Amy Poehler hangs out with the other the regular ladies of the cast including Rashida Jones who likes the young girl played by Aubrey Plaza.      Rashida is one of the cutest/most beautiful ladies in Hollywood or anywhere else for that matter and her father is the famous Quincy Jones.  She appears to be as sincere in real life as she is on the show.   She made a comment that resonated with me by basically saying society has  hypersexualized today’s  young women and she is kind of a mentor to the uber cute Plaza.  A kind of big sister to the young Plaza who is really not really so far apart in age.    Women looking out for women especially the younger ladies who are trying to fit into the landscape of adulthood and they do not deserve the craven desires and sexist comments that diminish all women.

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Aubrey has the most vexing eyes and her stares coverup the fact that she is a sweet young woman.   She started off playing a 17 year old and she looked the part. Her deadpan humor is well-suited to the likes of The old ‘Bob Newhart Show‘ but she puts off the vibe of a more cagey young woman.   If looks could kill,  she is a comedic serial killer of a kind.   Once acclimated to her style it is not hard to fall in love with the character.    But here is where it turns ugly.   And it is not her so much,  as the Paparazzi types who are nothing more than pedophiles seeking to deflower the innocent daughters and sisters of this world.

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I am not sure when the sex video of her masturbating graphically on cam happened but this is precisely the thing that media needs to stop!  Now!    The hypersexualization of this young woman is evil, for lack of a better word.   At one moment she is an attractive teen and the next a 20-something molested by the  prying eyes of buttholes with no sense of respect.

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The same could be said for the Olsen twins.   Both have medical problems but worse than that is that when they turned 18,  it was like Shark Week.   Every perverted guy and a few gals spewed all kinds of negative and salacious gossip,  pictures and DVDs of the young starlets.    The comments are so vile and trashy,  that if they were my kids I would be out to kick some perv ass.   

The girl from Harry Potter Hermione in the raw is the delight of many a grown man and the younger versions as well as the coming of age girl.    But really?    The Philippines are known for their beautiful young women,  who in one magazine are called,   ‘Little Brown Fuck Machines’.    That makes my blood boil!   I love the group from that country called “MYMP” (Make Your Mothers Proud) because it is in direct contrast to the meat market mentality of men and women who exploit young ladies and even girls and many guys too.

The media and gossip rags have a field day with the 20-something starlets whose parents prey upon their paychecks and disregard the grown up young lady who has to sort this all out.   Lindsay Lohann is the cause du jour for those stupid gossip columns.    Her mom and dad are both totally worthless.   Disney girls are no longer having their periods before the lecherous predators are picking away their nubile bodies.   No wonder Hannah Montana traded in her preteen audience for the lude and lascivious trappings of a virtual porn princess.   Making it worse is that tongue action and again with the parents.      The pretty young lady from American Horror Story,  Taissa  Farmiga is but another example. The gorgeous young starlet in the last season,  ‘The Coven‘  was having sex with a guy in the hospital and her sex caused the guy to bleed out.

Amanda Bynes,   Jennifer Love Hewitt (a name that just puts a target on the young lady).    Selena Gomez and the list goes on and on and on.   I can only think of two to three young girls who have essentially survived in tact and that being Melissa Joan Hart,   Annette Funicello and to some extent Shakira.   At least she has controlled her own sexuality but it seems there is a different mindset in other countries or at least some of them.    Working in a pharmaceutical with Cubans in Tampa,  the father of the owner had hassled his son at 13 to get laid.   To be a real man and to hell with the girl who then not good enough to marry. Huh?

So we have lowlifes like the members of NAMBLA,  a group’s motto which is,   If they are eight,  it’s too late!   We have sex trade workers and slasher movies whose young teens are running around in cut-off shorts,  big boobs and then are butchered like the fatted calf in a Jewish Ceremony in old Jerusalem.    In Conan the Barbarian,   Conan is given a porcelain,  perfectly complected young white girl and the narrator describing her ‘from the finest stock‘.    Women as property!  Chatel like Hershey kisses for the privileged Caligula-like characters.   In Conan,  James Earl Jones the nefarious leader has a young virgin jump from a cliff to her death.   His commentary:  “That is power.  The power of flesh.

But what are the answers,  the solutions to a problem that many could care less about.  It is safe to say that the punitive route gets us no farther along than revenge and prevention beats a headstone or the casualties of sexual assault any day.   To an extent,  Aileen Wuornos was punished for her PTSD and while no one can be certain that should would have done these things anyway,   I wonder at the callousness of a society whose morals are conditional and feeds their sense of entitlement.   If anything some of these middle class people are lying to themselves,  in that their relative good fortune was set out by providence or the collusion of dark matter and extra dimensional planes and not their intrinsic goodness.   For if they say that,  then the innocent girl may have had it coming.      We have had that happening forever now,  so that is nothing new.

Hollywood,  stop!  Lawmakers,  make laws that benefit all people and that more importantly are prophylactic measures against the abused who often turn out to be abusers as well.   The black teenage girl who here in NC was raped several times and had anxiety issues,  anger and a sense of hopelessness.   You bureaucrats may know the rules but often these same rules are passive-aggressive ways of making the hungry,  the homeless and the forgotten,  feel even worse about themselves as they did before.

Conservatives,  obviously the system is there to make money and by denying foot stamps to drug abusers make them more dangerous as now they are hungry and angry too.   Do not stigmatize those with mental problems because they won’t get treatment.   I would rather sexual predators to be safely housed and getting treatment in contrast to being on the streets or in the prison systems.   Gangsters killing gangsters.   That is a no win situation.

We know what the right thing to do is.   Jesse Jackson,  Al Sharpton and many others are indeed poverty pimps and for the price of  10, F-35s we can do a lot of good.   Stop applying for public service jobs like Food Stamp personnel and section eight housing recipients and then having an attitude against your clients,  the people you should be helping.

One lady at a VA Hospital was making fun of suicidal veterans.   She thought it funny to minimize their pain and hanging them in effigy.    Her job,  to help these same veterans.   Isn’t that special?

At-risk kids make for at-risk parents so we need to be generous,   Before long we will have our first trillionaires and already over 1,000 billionaires.   You would think they could do more since God or the cosmos placed you in your place.  You didn’t apply for your lot.

Wake up people before things get too far out of hand.   And you American-haters,  bite me.   No society has a premium on wisdom,  even amongst the wise we have fools who just happen to have a large safety net that they got by all forms of slavery and theft.

The last song hits home for me.   I remember watching this movie only two weeks before my daughter and I met after 15 years of being missing.   Essentially kidnapped by her Mom.   Dreams do come true and when I called and told her,  “Rachel this is your dad”.   I heard crying.   This is what a girl needs!.   Not bullying and the pressure to grow up too fast because we are too lazy or too preoccupied and do not give a crap by the pain we inflict on her.

What would you do?

Love is a BATTLEFIED,   by Pat Benetar

We have all tripped on a few landmines in our lives and then justified it as being human.   And there is nothing wrong with that,  except when you forgot about your own errors in judgment.   Do we need a remembrance to keep us straight or do we just pile on and let the chips fall where they may?

Now,  there are abusers out there and many are women!

{. Everyone quotes the statistics given by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence: 1 in 4 women will be victims of domestic violence at some point in their lives, 1.3 million women are assaulted by their partner every year, 85% of domestic violence reported is against women. However, in a conflicting survey taken by the CDC in 2010, it was found that 40% of the victims of severe, physical domestic violence are men}

Okay ladies,  we need to gloss over that and for sure men do not want to seem like wimps but there is a time when someone is going to jail and if you deny that you were abused after being abused,  then it could be said that not all attacks are being reported! 

As usual the media loves to stir up the hornet’s nest and then leave a pile of manure in it’s wake.   And sadly,  the issues are buried as the next best story avails itself or some development where more accused surface and so the claims go on and on and on.

Men, as well as women, are victimized by violence. Sexual abuse and rape create substantial physical and psychological harm to male victims and perpetuate the cycle of violence. Men and boys are less likely to report the violence and seek services due to the following challenges: the stigma of being a male victim, the perceived failure to conform to the macho stereotype, the fear of not being believed, the denial of victim status, and the lack of support from society, family members, and friends.   This according to the National Coalition to Domestic Violence.

For more information or to get help, please call:  National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE   National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE  National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD

So my friends there you have it.   People like that idiot James Brown (the announcer) is just as guilty and pathetic as the NFL and other media who purport to be about women and knowingly commit this felonious rendition of so-called social justice!

Of course we expect an open mind when we fail.   Presumably because ours was not so bad,  not really.   You don’t know me!   So,  it goes.    Then a scandal breaks and the media feeds the feeding frenzy by storming off stage in a fit or rage and letting you know where they stand.

But there is a letter missing.   A letter that adds clarity and truthfulness and is a humbling word that is fast becoming a desiccated symbol of  a metaphorical and geopolitical hell .   Bereft of logic and reliant upon emotions,  the best and the brightest (self-aggrandizement at it’s worst) declare to us unwashed,  trailer trash adults as intellectual deadbeats.

I want to buy the vowel ‘E”.   And adding this one small letter is to completely reframe humanity  as  more ‘humane’.     Fed by a narcissistic media and spin-meisters our society resembles the Catholic Crusades or Islamic Jihad.     But the most pernicious fly-in-the-ointment is ‘Political Correctness’.   By using this tactic the vocabulary becomes constricted like the Orwellian language of INGSOC where more is less or less is more depending on the current translation of the words.  Or the King’s English?

To many,  the News is a TV dinner full of political preservatives and false calls to justice and action.   They are probably the most guilty,   the Ken-dolls waxing euphemistically at over their own cant and hyperbole.   As a person with a severe anxiety disorder,  finding calm and relative bliss can be a chore.   Now couple those obstacles that everyone else shares is beyond me.


What Tiger Woods did is none of your business aside from the smarmy details and since I do not care about such things,  it is of no interest to me and it shouldn’t to you.  Find a hobby,  pick your nose or find your Ouija Board.    Don’t tell me they deserve it because they are celebrities.  I am no fan of celebrities but I do not get carping on others what a lot of you have done.    Yes, some of you do these things or worse and that includes a few woman as well.

I have never understood the logic behind  that or worrying about Janay Rice unless you care about her  predicament and help her now that Ray Ray does not have a job.   That’s none of your concern either but a matter which involves their family and they have the right to privacy.   They did not sign a waiver to make a lot of money thus forfeiting their rights to a bunch of truncated vigilantes with severe boundary issues.

Ray did very wrong and needs to learn that he can never do such things and then gets .   To say it is all abuse of women smells of sticking your hooked nose and split tongue into matters which have no bearing on your own life.    And anyway,  who are beating these drums?  The feminists see a chance to intervene with the end game being only their opinions.   Cause and effect  but the underlying issues are painted over with peace signs and slogans.

The dogmas are so entrenched and accepted that it seems any aspersion cast upon Republicans is true and means you hate the poor,  favor the rich,   etc.    One of those bits of hyperbole would be that a person is greedy if they are a Young Republican.   This is a common depiction and is accepted.


In a related report by the Inquisitr, ESPN’s Hannah Storm was almost teary-eyed as she described how she had to tell her three daughters about the Ray Rice video and the circumstances behind it. Furthermore, she called out the NFL, saying that the organization needs to draw a hard line on NFL players when it comes to domestic violence. On the other side of the issue, Michael Vick claims everyone, including Ray Rice, deserves a second chance.
Read more at http://www.inquisitr.com/1483368/ray-rices-wife-janay-rice-lashes-out-at-nfl-commissioner-roger-goodell/#iYCeljxi1cKMWwCQ.99

People have to stop piling  on to people for sport or a good story.     Many players still support him and the fans who returned their jerseys did so,   because they can get a new one.   Hopefully their is a commissioner’s dunce cap for falling prey to the pressures of hypocritical genuflecting idiots.

My blogs are relatively obscure because I go out of my way not to as popular with the wrong crowd.   One individual said my lack of followers and comments invalidate my opinions!  Really?   That’s like throwing spaghetti against a wall,  some will stick.   Truth or Consequences?

Now let’s look at some things that go entirely not commented on.    Look at any young lady/woman who makes it big and you get the eventual playboy cover.   Many of them will be featured in a movie in short shorts or panties then are slain by some sociopath or horny alien.   The same media that harps on treating women right, but do you EVER see them doing anymore than that?  No, never!   The best you get is still all about them.  (The media).

Wait that guy hit a horse.   I should protest protesting is cool.

And as far as younger females go,  they are off-limits until they reach 18 (The Olsen Twins,  Molly Cyrus) and just about legal team becomes fair game.    The song Plush by Stone Temple Pilots depicts the sense of urgency to deflower purity and to scandalize,   so is it any mystery that the message gets out and it is largely media of some sort that perpetuates virginity is some kind of weirdness that MUST be slain.     The confusing scene of sexuality and violence seem to correlate into a seamless package of adolescent dynamite.

These same architects of depravity will deny any part of the malaise that helped to foment.   Of course they could blame us or blame Ray Rice for his stupidity but you sure want to bury him and his career.   The unintended consequence is family security but all of that is out the window now because liberal progressives are unrelenting and are mission first.   The party of tolerance is anything but.     The thing with Adrian Peterson is even more personal as his reputation will never recover!   This is NOT about football,  this is about cleaning your own attics and basements.

Some of the fervor does not match the rhetoric nor offers any solutions other than castrating all men and do away with all sports.   Yeah that’s you.   You have no suggestions outside scarlet letters and editorial denouncements.    Editorials means ever having to say you are sorry,  even though you might be.    James Brown of the NFL.   Do not condescend to me or other men.     Those bad guys (gals) deserve redemption, even if you do not agree.

Outside of Christmas and perhaps Thanksgiving they help the needy but do they do this behind the scenes or with a microphone and a fake smile?   No,  because this is a playground where actors and media dress up like us and pretend to be us.   Only,   we know it is a ruse.    Like an errant preacher,  police officer or a teacher,  they are all about chances.   Chances they did not give to others!    Their misfortune is not any sort of vindication sought,  but that their perceived holiness is not assailed.

Janay’s life was miserable at times but how could I know that unless she said so?  And those people who are falsely accused remember the gallows of judgment that is worn as white sheets endorsed by grand-standing politicians.      A chief of police with dozens if keyed up rabble-rousers with hopes of becoming the next big thing.

Erstwhile Barbies with faces meant for Halloween and the sad slow march into an old folks home where the deer and the antelope roam, with visions of scrapbooks and compliments lost in favor of denizen of new generations.   The pretty little womanlettes garnering the drools and slanders of a hungry set of ravenous coffee-stained dentures and a deer rack in your garage.   This is the backdrop to the great witch-hunts.    Only you you .

George W. Bush did not serve  a fake turkey to troops but that  Urban Myth was grudgingly admitted to.   With the media they do it with roaming bands of rich,  out of touch sociopaths with cameras and an agenda.   Stop the hate!!!

I love that speech and admire the kind words about President George W. ush and if for no other reason,  because we should respect the office and their decisions and stop trying to ruin each other.   Because in the end,  we all fall short and my attempt is to get people to  stop being ruthless to each other.   Diversity is gift.   Trust me on that.