This is an age long dichtomomy and it’s kind of funny, but the theme of this Korean series was this girl (high school and college aged) who persevered and got the guy she loved for ages. Of course, there would be the guy who loved her, however the love was unrequited. Here’s a song, to make you think. Good luck!


Please welcome Duncan Swallow to #BeREALationships.


I’d gone to a party on my ownsome, and R arrived with someone else. About an hour later she was sitting on my lap exploring my tonsils.

I’d got a bit of a reputation for being a poacher, since something similar had happened with another couple of girls. Yet I genuinely have never made a pass at a girl/woman who was with someone else. It may come as a surprise to you, but I’ve never made a pass at a girl/woman ever. Not once. I’ve always been too reticent and they’ve had to make the running.

This time things went well with R. We became an item, went out for about a year, which is quite a long time when you’re sixteen or seventeen. Her parents liked me. If I went to visit, they’d let us use the front room undisturbed until about ten…

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Juxtaposition – To Seizures

It is very easy to dx seizures as PNES.  Slowly the stigmas are being addressed, but not so with people, who are haunted with uncertainty and these stigmas are real)  .    their ‘whatevers’ add to  the  (stressed- related,  somatic island).  I have partial Epilepsy,  GAD, MDD and OCD.

You will hear many doctors associate this unrest and abuse.  That said,  this nothing less than conjecture.    Our doctors are flummoxed by what is regarded as somatic.   But I am advocating from those who have the malady and then Doctors in essence ( say patients should be relieved by a negative dx  w/Epilespy,  without a name or underlying  causality).

A seizure is A seizure.  You feel like free-falling, trances and violent jerking and confused.  You are tired and just need to be heard.